How You Make A Connection With The Opposite Sex

There are instances wherein people just find it quite challenging to connect with a person of the opposite gender. This can be attributed to a number of factors such as low self-esteem, or previous experience that didn’t work out too well. If you are one who finds it hard to approach someone in the opposite sex, below are some tips that can help you instantly connect with them.

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Be Confident And Make The First Move

The first thing that you need to do to connect to a person of the opposite sex is to be confident and believe in yourself. In order to do so, visualize yourself as who you want to be each time you look in the mirror every morning. Tell yourself how awesome you are and how much you love your life. If you find it hard to do this, perhaps you need to address any emotional baggage that you are still carrying. Seek the advice of a life coach as necessary. Before anyone else will believe in you, remember that you should believe in yourself first.

When you feel confident enough, muster enough guts to go ahead and make the first move. Regardless of whether you are in a bar, or in a library, be casual and start a small talk with a total stranger of the opposite sex. You may be surprised at how interested they seem to be. On the other hand, pick up your phone and send a text message to that girl or guy you’ve been wanting to hang out with.

When you use these tips, for sure you will be able to generate an instant connection to a person of the opposite sex. You will never know if they have been wanting to spend time with you too unless you ask them to.

Make Eye Contact And Smile

Whenever you approach someone, make sure to gaze into their eyes and smile. With a sustained eye contact, the person you approached will feel that you are genuinely interested in them and in what they have to say. When the other person starts talking, make sure that you pay attention to what they are saying and don’t let your eyes wander around. Along with this, make sure that your smile is genuine because nothing can be more disconnecting than a fake smile.

Remember Their Name

As soon as you have approached a stranger, ask for their name and be sure to address them by their name all throughout your conversation. In the same manner, if you have gained the courage to approach a person you’re been meaning to talk to for a long time, make sure to address them by their first name too, because for sure by now, you know their name by heart. Like you, their name is perhaps the sweetest word to them and hearing you refer to them by their first names will make them feel comfortable with you.

Ask Open-Ended Questions And Share Your Thoughts

If you are the type of person who would much rather keep to himself or herself, the best way to keep the conversation going is by asking open-ended questions such as those that begin with what, how, why, or where. Start off with the basics such as where they have been or what brought them to the place you are now.

After which, you can ask deeper questions that will give you an insight about their personality such as what they love to do or what excites them, as well as how they feel about a particular topic. Ask questions that can bring about a range of follow up questions for every answer that they give you.

Also, it wouldn’t hurt to share a little bit about yourself too, such as the things that pique your interest or the stuff that you do. It is best if you can share your thoughts about a certain topic that they have brought up. In this way, not only is the conversation going, but you are getting to know each other and generating a certain kind of connection.

Be Upfront About Who You Are

Establishing a certain connection with the opposite sex is much easier if you are upfront about who you are. This means that it is alright for you to show your vulnerabilities by sharing your dreams as well as your fears. This may even be a way for them to share tips on how you will be able to overcome your fears later on or connect you with someone who can turn your dreams into a reality.

On the other hand, show them that you are also not afraid of taking risks and getting out of your comfort zone because this can be a source of inspiration for them. Don’t hold back on telling them what you can and cannot do because it is in this banter that you will be able to get to know each other more, establishing a solid connection.

Keep In Touch

Finally, make sure to keep in touch with the people you meet, particularly if they sparked your interest. This may be the path to having more time spent with each other in the future. Make sure to deliver what you have promised though. For instance, if you promised to show them your art pieces, then by all means do so the next time. In the same manner, if you promised to introduce them to your furry friend, then also ensure that you do so.

To wrap things up, be bold enough to make the first move and initiate a connection with a person of the opposite gender. Once you’ve mustered the courage to approach them, make sure to keep an eye contact and smile. Address them by their first name and don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation. Be honest about who you are and make sure to keep in touch with them. Bear in mind that you really have nothing to lose but everything to gain by making a new friend.

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