10 Simple Ways To Feel Good About Yourself

There are so many health and beauty products available in the stores. We see so many advertisements that promote ways to make us look good and feel great about ourselves. Some people choose products to cover imperfections, while others pay for cosmetic surgery. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that we should not buy the products or take advantage of the services. However, if money is tight, these products and procedures can be very costly. But what about the things we can’t buy in a store? Nothing can get a person down as much as not feeling good about themselves. Self confidence is very important.

I consider myself to be an average person. I am not gorgeous, and I do not have celebrity status. However, that does not hinder me from pursuing my dreams and feeling good about myself. I am blessed that I am surrounded by people who make me feel good about myself, and who help me feel special in my own skin. I have always believed that everyone deserves to feel good about themselves no matter who they are. Here are some simple ways that I hope can help:

1. Do not compare yourself to others – One of the worst things we can do from a confidence standpoint is compare ourselves to others, especially when looking at what they have that we do not have. Think of yourself as someone who is unique with talents and gifts that you can share with your friends and family. Some of the biggest confidence killers are jealousy and envy. Instead of comparing yourself, look deep inside and see what you need to improve. Don’t improve upon these things to please others, but to grow as a person.

2. Wear clothes that make you feel good – When you look good, you have confidence. Wear clothes that makes you feel good. Find the time to study your body type and wear clothes that will complement it. Don’t force yourself to wear tight fitting clothes if you know it will only make you feel uncomfortable. There are so many books, magazines and online articles about finding the best fit for your body type.

3. Sit down and make a list of your assets – Get a pen and paper, sit down, and list your assets. List not only your physical assets, but everything you know about yourself that makes you special and unique. This might include your talents, your achievements and even your goals and dreams. Then analyze which ones you want to improve on or develop and make an effort to do that.

4. Create your own style – In addition to number 2 on this list, it is also important to create your own style. What is so wonderful about the 21st century is that we do not need to conform to trends. We can now wear anything that makes us happy and comfortable, yet still remain stylish. We just need to take the time to figure out what suits us best. I am so lucky that I have a brother who is a stylist. He is always willing to lend me his styling tips, and he loves me enough to tell me when something does not look good on me.

5. Take care of your body and mind – This is a must! Remember to eat your veggies, take your vitamins and exercise (even if for just 15 minutes a day). Also, read a book, visit a museum or do anything that will help stimulate your mind and your senses. Believe me, you will love yourself even more for it.

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6. Take care of skin – Our skin covers our entire body, so it’s important to take care of that too. Pamper yourself every once in awhile. Get a massage. Make sure that you wash your face. Use a toner and moisturize. Most importantly, drink plenty of water and get at least 8 hours of sleep each night. This simple regimen will help you to keep looking good.

7. Learn how to accept compliments – When someone says you look good, say thank you and just accept the compliment. If you aren’t used to doing this, it can feel awkward at first. However, learning to accept compliments instead of brushing them off will definitely help you feel good about yourself.

8. Respect your body – Even if you don’t feel 100% good about yourself, there are simple things you can do that will really perk you up. For example, get a fun haircut that you can maintain. Brush your teeth and clip your nails. Take a bath. If you are clean and well groomed, even if you are just wearing a plain shirt and jeans, you will still look great.

9. Cheer yourself up – Laughter is still the best medicine. Laugh whenever you can. Cheer yourself up when you feel low. Watch a good movie, or curl up on the couch and read a good book. Take a long walk and enjoy nature and your surroundings.

10. Accept yourself for who you are – The best way to feel great about who we are is to accept ourselves and try to grow and harness the strengths we posses within. Don’t let what other people think or say about you affect or make you feel otherwise. There are a lot of people out there who might insult you or try to bring you down. Just remember, people who sometimes say awful things to discourage you are many times insecure themselves. They may just be on a power trip. Just ignore what they say and move on.

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    lebo (soweto) 10 years

    As a 25 year old,black south African woman, who does not have much to offer to the world yet…I need say that I really needed to read this. Especially the part that says we should love ourselves for who we are.

    I grew up as a very confident person, even my friends would say I’m arrogant…but since I turned 23 all of my confidence went down the drain…

    Do not stress…I plan on rebuilding myself…one day at a time…

    Thank you for this…thanx a lot

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      Danne G. Barber 7 years

      sounds like you are on your way, know go get it.

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    maitri 10 years

    hmmm excellent

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    Monisha 9 years

    thankyou :)

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    reena 9 years

    nice its self motivating

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    carina 9 years

    Very nice… I learn something after reading it. Thank you.

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    Khaled 9 years

    Laughter is the best medicine

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    mohamed 9 years


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    sushmita 9 years

    Thanks I learnt from it

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    JesusFreak 9 years

    Thank you so much. I really needed this. I will keep these in mind and tell others how to feel better about themselves. Thank you sooooooooo much!!

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    Natalie 9 years

    Thanks for this!! I too was very confident when younger, but lost the cofidence in my self for a bit!! I am slowly getting it back for sure! Life is too short to look down on yourself and think you’re not good enough! Truth is, you ARE good enough and you have so much to offer!!

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    Lizbeth 9 years

    its going to be hard to not be compering myself with other girls but im going to try not to . thank you so much

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    Divad 9 years

    I agree …. who else can give joy but yourself … trust in the love that you have …the love for oneself is so much more caring , supportive if you have a good head about real expectations …

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    Angel 9 years

    I have been put down for so long that I get scaried and I try do some thing about but i end up messing up.Or i just piss people off.

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    amie 9 years

    I must say, i was in need of this article.being 28, just had a break up….i was fully broke; every now and then i was making myself to hate me more. I had cried enough and now thought how can i move on…coz its always easy to say things but the its not always easy face situations. How to deal with emotional pain and trauma you are facing?
    I will be applying these to my personal life and hopefully will get better….thank you.

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    amie 9 years

    What about those who had lost the meaning of love

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    ntombie 8 years

    i have a problem of lowself esteem.wht can i do to boost myself.i have perfect structure ,but im shy about my self

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    Cheril 7 years

    There are so many great ways to boost your self-esteem. This is an awesome list.

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    Lissandra 7 years

    I would like to acknowledge the author for have write such a complete list of tips to improve ourselves. I recently read another post with complementary information about this topic.

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